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Tenderness

In act of love, act of sharing, books, I love you. Now what?, life, love, mabel iam, open, relationship, Relationships, sex, sex and the perfect lover, Tenderness, the love diet, What now?”, why?, women and men on August 30, 2008 at 9:16 pm

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“I want to prepare a sweet, savory, delectable dish for us tonight. A perfect blend of caresses, kisses, and tender embraces, with a touch of sweet juices flowing outward from our very souls. Mysterious perfumes released by the friction and fusion of passion’s flame. This recipe is an awesomely powerful, miraculous aphrodisiac, an exquisite elixir, different and unique every time. An unforgettable treat, just for you and me. “

“Tenderness envelops us like a warm lake that purifies and remains calm while encompassing the skin and heart.”

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Choose Happiness

In books, Happiness, I love you. Now what?, love, the love diet, Uncategorized on August 26, 2008 at 3:59 pm

By Mabel Iam

Human beings often attempt to compensate for their flaws, lack of self-love or insecurity through relationships. That is where they make their mistake. Relationships provide stability only when our sense of self-esteem and spiritual balance is rooted in our whole inner being.

Happiness is rooted inside of our own being. It exists inside each of us, in every fiber of our being, but one has to be daring enough to savor it, to feel it. Happiness doesn’t just happen to us; it is something that we ourselves accept without concern for what may be happening in spite of it. It is a choice in life, a personal attitude based on self-love that frees us from our addictions to pain.

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I LOVE YOU. NOW WHAT?

In books, I love you. Now what?, love, the love diet, Uncategorized on August 26, 2008 at 3:26 pm

By Mabel Iam
Often we enter into a relationship and say “I love you,” and then we ask ourselves, “Now what?” Feeling love for someone is not enough.

We have to construct the relationship and this is the most difficult and complicated thing to do in life. There are no schools that teach this. Nobody has ever taught us how to relate to ourselves or to other people.

A romantic relationship is a continuous exchange of emotions, ideas, opinions, wills, beliefs, actions, reactions, vibrations, thoughts and objectives between two people.

The foundation for happiness is set when this exchange is positive and balanced. Through it, love can be rediscovered and shared by way of trust, understanding, gentleness, union and acceptance. But before we can enjoy its benefits, we must learn how this process is carried out, after we say the words “I love you.”

This process is learned, like any art. In fact, it is an act or maturity if you desire to learn to efficiently and consciously solidify a relationship. This process, when carried out by the couple, is marvelous and very gratifying on the material, emotional, mental and spiritual levels, and benefits all human beings.
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What is the Love Diet?

In books, love, the love diet, Uncategorized on August 20, 2008 at 2:01 pm

by Mabel Iam

A diet is a detailed daily eating plan or menu, made up of foods that contain all the necessary nutrients to give our bodies the energy they need, sustaining us so that we can live in perfect harmony with each other and with the Universe. If we stop to think about it, we may ask ourselves, what is the one nutrient that’s an absolutely essential element in any diet, and it’s actually much more than just a simple nutrient, because it feeds our very soul?

Every single person on the planet—regardless of their race, creed, age, sex, religion, or culture—when asked what the most important and most essential nutrient is, would all answer that it is, without doubt, LOVE.

Just as food nourishes us every day of our lives, so does love. From before we are born up until our last breath, the food we eat every day is an essential factor in our survival, as is the love we receive since it nourishes our soul.

Still, one can say that love is even better than food as it isn’t fattening, it isn’t toxic, it can be consumed at any time, in any quantity, and won’t give you indigestion, or cause you allergic reactions. Love transcends death, it has the power to take us on a journey beyond our physical plane, it is, essentially, perfect.

At some point in our lives, we all confuse, waste, destroy, or abuse what we call “love” without realizing that it is in fact the mind that plays tricks on us and ultimately works against us. It’s our mind that makes us eat more, that decides what is healthy and what isn’t, and when we’ve had enough of something or not. In love our minds often lead us to judge the relationship we’re in, never allowing us to feel satisfied with the attention we receive from the person we are ultimately in love with. We must learn to release the grip our mind has over our heart, and to live freely with the love we feel.

The Love Diet has been designed to overcome the obstacles our minds put up, letting love be the delicious dish it was meant to be, and allowing sex to flourish, naturally. We can teach ourselves to listen closely to the one we love, and to always be attentive to our loved one’s needs, as well as our own. Through expert sexual techniques and creative visualization exercises that will help us further understand ourselves, The Love Diet will help us establish a deeper connection with the ones we love.

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