Choose Happiness

By Mabel Iam

Human beings often attempt to compensate for their flaws, lack of self-love or insecurity through relationships. That is where they make their mistake. Relationships provide stability only when our sense of self-esteem and spiritual balance is rooted in our whole inner being.

Happiness is rooted inside of our own being. It exists inside each of us, in every fiber of our being, but one has to be daring enough to savor it, to feel it. Happiness doesn’t just happen to us; it is something that we ourselves accept without concern for what may be happening in spite of it. It is a choice in life, a personal attitude based on self-love that frees us from our addictions to pain.

Mabel Iam

I LOVE YOU. NOW WHAT?

By Mabel Iam
Often we enter into a relationship and say “I love you,” and then we ask ourselves, “Now what?” Feeling love for someone is not enough.

We have to construct the relationship and this is the most difficult and complicated thing to do in life. There are no schools that teach this. Nobody has ever taught us how to relate to ourselves or to other people.

A romantic relationship is a continuous exchange of emotions, ideas, opinions, wills, beliefs, actions, reactions, vibrations, thoughts and objectives between two people.

The foundation for happiness is set when this exchange is positive and balanced. Through it, love can be rediscovered and shared by way of trust, understanding, gentleness, union and acceptance. But before we can enjoy its benefits, we must learn how this process is carried out, after we say the words “I love you.”

This process is learned, like any art. In fact, it is an act or maturity if you desire to learn to efficiently and consciously solidify a relationship. This process, when carried out by the couple, is marvelous and very gratifying on the material, emotional, mental and spiritual levels, and benefits all human beings.
Mabel Iam

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