The magic desire of the kiss

By Mabel Iam

Make a list of all of the people you would like to hug or kiss, and write down why. Think about why you don’t do it more often.

If one of the first people on your list is your romantic partner: wake him or her up in the morning with a kiss. If you don’t live together, call your lover and greet him or her with a kiss over the phone. Send an email or text message every day, that has the words “HUG” and “KISS.”

Do the same thing with all the other people on your list. According to the relationship you have with them, choose the most appropriate kind of hug or kiss.

In case of reconciliation with your partner: on a very special intimate occasion, a woman can put on red lipstick and kiss a piece of scented paper, and then send it off as an urgent letter to her beloved.

If you’re a man send her red roses with a card that has a big kiss on the front.

The act of kissing is not as complicated as a full sexual encounter, and it doesn’t take as much effort, even though it can bring the couple just as much pleasure, or even more.

Visualize a world full of kisses

When you’re feeling down, or going through a rough patch with your partner, when your self-esteem is at an all-time low and you don’t feel loved or desired, or whenever you need it, think about how everything is a reflection of “how you love yourself.” The magic of visualization can work wonders.

Do the following exercise:

1. Try to relax, in a quiet, peaceful place. If you’d like, you can light a pleasant-smelling incense or scented candles.

2. Put on some soothing music, and dress as comfortably as possible. Lie down in a spot where you’ll be most relaxed.

3. Visualize every cell in your body, and imagine that they are magically transformed into tiny kisses, in all kinds of styles and colors, for example: red, aggressive, sweet, tender, loving, shiny, passionate, sensual, attractive.

4. Then, imagine that you’re hugging yourself and giving yourself caresses in your mind, or actually wrap your arms around yourself. When you really feel that you truly love yourself, imagine that the person you desire is standing in front of you.

5. Kiss and hug that person in your mind.

When you least expect it, you’ll see how the energy of your love can work miracles in your relationships. Just wait, for the hugs and kisses will take care of you. Love’s naturally unfolding magic never fails.